1. Relationships & Families Flashcards

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Give two Bible verses about the creation of male and female for humans.

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Genesis 1:27-28 (“So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”)

Mark 10:6-9 (“But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”)

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Consummation

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Making a marriage complete with sexual intercourse.

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Marriage

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The legal/formal recognition of a union of two people as partners in a personal relationship.

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Annulment

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A statement by the Catholic Church that there was no valid marriage in the first place because one (or more) of the seven conditions was not met.

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Complement

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When two separate people possess characteristics that when combined, make them better than they were on their own.

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Adultery

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Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse.

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Sanctity of Life

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A Catholic teaching that states that life is holy and precious because it comes from God.

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Divorce

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The bringing to an end of a valid marriage between a couple.

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Gender Prejudice

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Actions or thoughts that are based on the belief that women are not equal to men in terms of rights and dignity.

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Extramarital

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Occuring outside of marriage

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Consent

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Where a person freely and voluntarily agrees to participate in an interaction.

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Remarriage

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A marriage that takes place after a previous marital union has ended.

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Gender Discrimination

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Treating someome unequally and disadvantageously based on a prejudical thought about their gender.

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Unitive

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Sex should unite couples and deepen their love, and therefore they become closer, more committed and fully give themselves to each other.

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15
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What is the definition and teaching of the word ‘Marital’?

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Occuring within Marriage

Allows two people in love to publicly commit to each other, with promises of lifelong union, and requires sexual intercourse, and sex before or outside marriage is prohibited.

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Procreative

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God creates new life through sex, and so marriage contains the commitment to lovingly accept children as a gift from God, therefore creating more intensity in self-giving when opening a new life to the world.

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17
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‘God created humans beings in his image; male and female he created them’ (Genesis 1:27).

Give two main meanings:

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Both men and women are created in the image of God, and blessed by him, and so they are equal.

Men and women should complement each other, by giving each other what the other lacks, producing a harmony which isn’t possible in isolation.

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18
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Give three teachings about the human body from Pope John Paul II’s ‘Theology of the Body’:

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God loves every person and created both sexes to have equal dignity and value.

The full meaning of the body is appreciated through a deep relationship with the opposite sex within marriage.

True mutual love includes having only the number of children than can be lovingly cared for.

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Give three reasons as to why the Catholic Church teach that sex before marriage is wrong.

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  1. Sex with someone you are not married to trivialises (devalues) the sexual act and a key purpose of marriage.
  2. Casual sex is wrong, as it can cause harm to others, and instead should be with someone you love and trust.
  3. The gift of virginity makes husband and wife feel special, privileged and loved.
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20
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Give three Catholic views on contraception.

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  1. Sex is important within marriage as it is an expression of the total commitment of the couple to each other.
  2. Using artificial contraception is not allowed as it makes sex non-procreative.
  3. Family planning (the practice of controlling how many children couples have, and when they have them) is allowed if it is done naturally.
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21
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Give three contrasting views on contraception.

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  1. Contraceptives are essential to stop the spread of STIs.
  2. The Bible doesn’t forbid contraception.
  3. It can be medically necessary.
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22
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Give two Catholic teachings on homosexuality.

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Homosexual people must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity.

Homosexual acts are sinful, as sex should occur within marriage and between a man and a woman, hence making homosexual relationships non-procreative.

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23
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Give two Catholic views on same sex marriage.

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It is not recognised because it is not a sacramental union between a one man and one woman.

Same-sex couples cannot naturally have children, and so don’t meet the requirements for a valid Catholic marriage (procreation).

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24
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Give two contrasting views regarding same sex marriage.

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Many don’t see having children as an essential part of marriage.

Homosexual people should have same rights as anyone else, including sexual relationships, love and marriage.

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Give three reasons as to why adultery is wrong in the eyes of the Catholic Church / Catholics.

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It breaks the vows made in marriage (to have and to hold from this day forward).

It betrays trust in the marriage, and causes harm and suffering to the innocent partner.

It brings distress/tensions into the home, and can cause the whole family to be unhappy.

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26
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Give two examples of artificial contraception.

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Any two from:
Condom
Contraceptive Pill
Morning After Pill
Vaginal Rings

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27
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What two methods of ‘contraception’ does the Catholic Church accept?

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Natural Family Planning
Celibacy before Marriage

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28
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What is NFP?

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The practice of controlling how many children couples have, and when they have them by tracking periods to see when you’re most fertile and avoiding sex on those days.

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29
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Give one form of contraception that goes against the ‘Sanctity of Life’.

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The morning after pill because it states that from the moment the sperm fertilises the egg, life has started.

30
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Give one Bible quote against the use of contraception.

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Genesis 1:22 says, ‘Be fruitful and multiply’, and so it is wrong to stop God’s gift, which is lovingly intended for a married couple.

31
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Give 6 marriage vows couples make during a Catholic marriage ceremony.

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To have and to hold from this day onwards.
For better, for worse
For richer, for poorer
In sickness and in health
To love and to cherish
Till death do us part

32
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Give six conditions for a valid Catholic marriage.

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Is not valid until it is consumated

Both people must be getting married of their own free will

Must not be closely related

Promises must be made in front of a Catholic priest

Must declare an acceptance of God’s gift of children

Promise that they will remain together

33
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Give two reasons as to why the Catholic Church does not recoginse divorce.

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  1. Marriage promises that are made before God cannot be broken (‘till death do us part’).
  2. During the marriage, the priest states ‘what God has joined together let no man separate’ (Mark 10:9)
34
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Name three conditions under which the Catholic Church will allow annulment.

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The couple never had sexual intercourse, and so the martiage was not consummated.

They insist on using contraception, hence rejecting God’s gift of children and making it non-procreative.

The marriage was forced.

35
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Give two Bible quotes regarding gender equality.

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‘In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.’
Genesis 1:27

‘There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.’
Galatians 3:28

36
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Give a quote from the CCC regarding gender equality.

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‘Man and woman were made ‘for each other’ - not that God left them half-made and incomplete: he created them to be a communion of persons, in which each can be ‘helpmate’ to the other, for they are equal as persons … and complementary as masculine and feminine.’ CCC 372

37
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Give two examples of Jesus’ attitude towards women.

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He cured a women who had been bleeding for 12 years, as she believed that if she touched his cloth, she will be cured, and that had happened.

Jesus heals Jairus’ daughter by touch when he takes the little girl by the hand, and says ‘Little girl, get up’.

38
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Give four Catholic views on cohabitation.

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It may destroy the sense of family.

It breaks the sanctity of a union.

Reduces effort to make the relationship last.

Removes a sense of commitment within the union.

39
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Give four contrasting views regarding cohabitation.

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It can be used as a test for marriage.

It is quite common today, and so the Church should accept it.

People have freedom to choose how they live.

It can strengthen relationships before marriage happens.

40
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Give four contrasting views regarding cohabitation.

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It can be used as a test for marriage.

It is quite common today, and so the Church should accept it.

People have freedom to choose how they live.

It can strengthen relationships before marriage happens.

41
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Give two practical steps that Christian couples can take to reduce the chances of spliiting up.

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They can pray togther regularly for spiritual unity and guidance.

They can openly communicate and resolve conflicts with forgiveness and grace.

42
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What is the Catholic view on remarriage?

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It can only happen if the original partner has died.

43
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What is the Anglican view on remarriage?

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Someone who is divorced can remarry in an Anglican church.

44
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Give the Anglican view on divorce.

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Divorce is accpeted and recognised because sometimes it is human nature that vows cannot be made.

45
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Give three reasons as to why the Catholic Church does not allow female priests.

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The priest acts in the person of Christ – so the priest must be male.

Jesus chose men to be his 12 apostles so only men should be priests today.

The Church’s teaching is right for all times, and so we should not just change it because society has changed.

46
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Give two reasons as to why single parents and same-sex parents are not encouraged by the Catholic Church.

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Children need to experience the different roles of a mother and a father.

Procreation cannot take place.

47
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Give two contrasting views regarding single and same-sex parents.

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There is a growing acceptance of single and same sex parents in society.

Many say that it is the bond between the parent and child that matters more.

48
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Give some purposes of the family.

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Security
Love
Care
Eduction
Stability
New Life (procreation)
Religious Teaching
Support
Moral Guidance
A nuturing environment

49
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Give two examples of gender discrimination in the workplace.

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Gender Pay Gap: Women are paid less then men.

Job Positions: Although women make up half the workforce, men hold a higher proportion of
senior positions.

50
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What did Pope Francis say regarding gender discrimination?

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‘Why should women earn less than men? It is a pure scandal!’

51
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Give two Catholic teachings regarding gender discrimination.

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It can do great damage as it makes some feel less worthy/valued.

It can negatively affect our whole society.

52
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The family is described by the Catholic Church as _______________.

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The Church in Miniature

53
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What are the four main tasks of a family in the Catholic Church?

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Procreation (nuclear family is the best environment for growing-up of children)

Security (stable, safe environment for children to develop, involving tough love)

Education (parents are most important teachers to children; should be role models, teaching right and wrong according to Catholic principles)

Authority (a parent’s authority should develop a child into an independant and balanced person, who has self respect and respect for their parents and society)

54
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What is the traditional role of the mother and father?

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Mother: Looks after home and children.
Father: Protecting, providing for needs, teaching by word and example.

55
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Today, Catholics regard men and women as equally important in bringing up children. Both parents often go out to work. Give one reason for this:

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To help provide the family financially.

56
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When making the decision about who should work, what is the main thing Catholics should take into account?

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They should consider the dignity of work and the good of the family.

57
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What is the nature of Catholic marriage as a mnemonic?

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Sacrament (God is part of the marriage)
Permanent (Life Long)
Exclusive (Faithfulness is key)
Life-giving (Procreative)

58
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Give a quote that supports the idea of sex being marital.

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‘The sexual act outside of marriage is a grave sin.’
CCC

59
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Give a quote that supports the idea of sex being unitive.

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‘The two shall become one flesh.’
Genesis 2

60
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Give a quote that supports the idea of sex being procreative.

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‘Be fruitful, and increase in number’.
Genesis 1: 27-28

61
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What is God’s role in a Catholic marriage?

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God pours his grace and love into the couple, and God is actually present alongside the couple.

62
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Register

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A civil requirement to make the marriage legal.

63
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How might the homliy play a part in a Catholic marriage?

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The priest talks about the meaning of a Catholic marriage, and how the couple’s love will help them grow closer to God.

64
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What is the name for the mass that takes place during a wedding ceremony?

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Nuptial Mass

65
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What reading is commonly read during a Nuptial Mass?

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A passage from St Paul’s Letter to the Corinthians about the meaning of love.

66
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What does the exchanging of rings symbolise?

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The couple’s never-ending love and fidelity (faithfulness).

The marriage is also seen as precious as the metals used to make the rings.

67
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What is meant by ‘we are all temples of God’?

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The Sanctity of Life states that to destrory human life, we are destroy a place where God lives.

68
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What is meant by ‘we are all temples of God’?

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The Sanctity of Life states that to destrory human life, we are destroy a place where God lives.

69
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Regarding the roles of the family, what did St Paul state in his letter to the Ephesians?

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Family should be loving to one another and to Christ.

Wives should love their husband by doing what they ask.

Husbands should love their wives as they’re giving up their time to take care of the home and children.

Children should obey their parents, and the Lord, as they will receive a gift of long life.

Fathers should not handle their children with anger, but in discipline and respect to the Lord.

70
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Regarding the roles of the family, what did St Paul state in his letter to the Ephesians?

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Family should be loving to one another and to Christ.

Wives should love their husband by doing what they ask.

Husbands should love their wives as they’re giving up their time to take care of the home and children.

Children should obey their parents, and the Lord, as they will receive a gift of long life.

Fathers should not handle their children with anger, but in discipline and respect to the Lord.

71
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What does the CCC state regarding gender equality?

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Each of the two sexes has equal dignity, though in a different way.