Step 2: Run Down The Alley (Ch. 4-7) Flashcards
Institutional education tends to teach people to…
rely on teachers to guide us; “check off boxes”. when the real world forces us to do it on our own.
the hardest part to achieving a dream is…
stepping through the fear of the unknown when there is no clear path.
pg. 69
“the hardest part about achieving a dream isn’t actually achieving it—it’s stepping through your fear of the unknown when you don’t have a plan…
…Having a teacher or boss tell you what to do makes life a lot easier. But nobody achieves a dream from the comfort of certainty”
the first step that Alex took to figuring out how to interview his list was…
reaching out and asking people he already knew for advice.
how did he end up getting access to the Spielberg event?
an administrator at USC brought him as her assistant to the campus film event (even though students weren’t allowed)
why did the USC administrator help Alex?
humans enjoy being part of the adventure, it’s enticing, romantic, and fulfilling to help others.
to be prepared for the opportunity if it came up to speak with Spielberg, Alex…
read his biography during the day and watched all his movies at night
“The Flinch” is…
fear of rejection. a sense of paralysis and stammering when talking. the precursor to no confidence and a lost opportunity.
how did Spielberg get his start?
he snuck off of a bus at universal, bumped into Chuck Silvers (movie exec), got a 3 day pass, talked with as many people as possible, gave Chuck a short film, then landed a contract from doing so.
the third door.
who mentored Spielberg?
Chuck Silvers
schmoozing
talking with someone in a lively and friendly way, typically in order to impress or manipulate them
what is the Spielberg game?
- jump of the bus (third door)
- find an inside man (a mentor)
- ask for his or her help (trust, credibility, & belief)
after procrastinating and hesitating to talk to Spielberg, he was on his way out when…
without thinking Alex finally went for it and asked to ask him a question
another book that fuelled Alex was?
The 4 Hour Work Week - Tim Ferris
pg. 86 (excerpt from the 4 hour work week)
“What do you want?” is too imprecise to produce a meaningful and actionable answer. Forget about it.
“What are your goals?” is similarly fated for confusion and guesswork. To rephrase the question, we need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture…
What is the opposite of happiness? Sadness? No. Just as love and hate are two sides of the same coin, so are happiness and sadness…The opposite of love is indifference, and the opposite of happiness is—here’s the clincher—boredom…
….Excitement is the more practical synonym for happiness, and it is precisely what you should strive to chase. It is the cure-all. When people suggest you follow your “passion” or your “bliss,” I propose that they are, in fact, referring to the same singular concept: excitement.”