Relationships- Self-Disclosure (Factors Affecting Attraction) Flashcards
• Self-Disclosure:
People who share information are liked more; this is because when an individual discloses personal information to someone else, this disclosure suggests they trust that person.
• Social penetration theory:
Altman & Taylor suggest that as the relationship between individuals develops, interpersonal communication’s breadth (the types of topics) and depth (level of detail) increase from shallow to more
intimate.
• Reciprocity:
Relationships will only develop if both individuals are active in disclosing information and responding appropriately.
• Attributions:
Individuals consider the motivations behind self-disclosure; someone who discloses to everyone is seen as less attractive than someone who reveals information to fewer people.
• Appropriateness:
While revealing information is generally seen as improving relationships, breaking social norms or revealing information too early (TMI) can have the opposite reaction, lowering attraction.
✅ Sprecher and Hendrick (2004)
observed couples’ self-disclosure on dates. Men and women were found to have similar levels of self-disclosure, and a positive correlation was found between the amount of self-disclosure and measures of the quality of the relationship (satisfaction, love and commitment).
❌ no link
Much of the research on self-disclosure is correlational. So there may not be a causal link; rather than self-disclose causing attraction, we may self-disclose more to people we are attracted to. Or there is a third factor; if we share interests with people, this may lead to both increased disclosure and increased attraction.
❌alpha bias
It is generally thought that women are better communicators, more willing to share intimate information. This could, however, be an example of Alpha bias, exaggerating the differences between men and women.
Sidney Jourard (1971)
Revealing personal information about yourself-e.g. thoughts feelings and experiences.
More disclosure = greater feelings of intimacy