RELATIONSHIPS Flashcards
The Cycle of Violence (in relationship)
TENSION- (toxic, partner is walking on eggshells, insulting, yelling, threats)
VIOLENCE- (physical/sexual/verbal Assault happens, an outburst, -the shortest stage-)
HONEYMOON- (apologizes, “ill be better”. gives gifts, fall in love again, partner believes)
TENSION- VIOLENCE- HONEYMOON - REPEAT
PARTNER: Calls and/or texts ALOT! ALL THE TIME
red flag
PARTNER: Monoters the other partner, (watch everything they do)
red flag
PARTNER: Tells what to do, how to act, hella controlling. (prevents partner enjoy life)
red flag
PARTNER: is jealous, easily gets jealous
red flag
PARTNER: accuses of cheating, lying, flirting (explosive temper) (putting them down)
red flag
To BREAK UP with someone when in Abusive Relationship
NEVER private, PUBLIC PLACE where there’s other people or even over text.
How to help friend in abusive relationship (5)
- “I” statements
- dont insult partner
- give resources for help
-support friend
-dont do ultinateum/confront partner/ stay out of mess
Intimacy (4)
- spending time together
-doing things together
-sharing expierences
-write letter/notes…. idk
Passion (7)
-smiling
-hugging
-kissing
- arms around each other
-holding hands ROMANTICALLY
-gentle playful touching
-SEXuAL BEhAVioRS
Commitment (3)
-making future plans together
-making decisions together
-working towards goals together
THE THREE COMPOMENTS
Intimacy, Passion, Commitment
Non- Love
0 compoments
Liking (friendship)
1 = intimacy
ex: friends, sashkashka, platonic
Infatuation
1 = passion
ex: guy w hat…………………………..
