Dangerous personalities

Question 1

What are the 4 personalities responsible of the most harm in our daily lives ?

Answer 1

1) The narcissist personality
2) The emotionally unstable personalities
3) The paranoid personality
4) The predator

Question 2

What would an egocentric do to get others’ attention ?

Answer 2

They would arrive late at meetings, parties, and family events, delaying activities.
They can also storm in or make a dramatic entrance.
They will not hesitate to let people know they are smart and important.

Question 3

What would a narcissistic personality do to overvalue her/himself to in front of people ?

Answer 3

The narcissistic personality would find weaknesses or insecurities in others.

Question 4

Give some words that would describe a narcissit personality.

Answer 4

Abusive, acting, amoral, arrogant, beguiling, charismatic, contemptuous, dehumanizing, egocentric, self-centered, shallow, swindler, two-faced, unreliable

Question 5

What could a narcissistic personality do to her/his children to look even greater ?

Answer 5

They would push their children towards perfection to get the spotlight in the end
Ex : Getting As at school, participating in TV shows or contests, performing public or profitable endeavor.

Question 6

Why do people think they get over a narcissist personality’s behavior ?

Answer 6

They think things will get better. Unfortunately, it never happens.

Question 7

What can do an emotionally unstable personality to get someone’s attention ?

Answer 7

They can try to harm themselves if they feel alone or about to be abandoned.

Question 8

Why does an emotionally unstable personality lie to people ?

Answer 8

They crave for attention.
In extreme cases, they can lie about being pregnant, or having cheated on their spouse, or they can lie about being raped.

Question 9

What is the best reaction when an emotionally unstable personality threats to commit suicide ?

Answer 9

Stay calm. Call emergency services.
France => SAMU : 15 / police : 17 / pompier : 18

Question 10

Why you should not try to solve all alone a situation where an emotionally unstable personality threats to commit suicide ?

Answer 10

Because these people can and will take advantage on that. Leave the situation to professionals.

Question 11

How can an emotionally unstable personality test the loyalty of someone ?

Answer 11

They can ask publicly : “Are you with me or with her ?”, “Whose side are you on ?”

Question 12

Give some words that describe the emotionally unstable personality

Answer 12

Abnormal, angry, borderline, chaotic, clingy, complainer, confusing, controlling, demanding, destructive, draining, frustated, frustating, histrionic, irrational, lascivious, moody, risky, seesaw, tornado, unhappy

Question 13

How is doing someone living with an emotionally unstable personality most of the time ?

Answer 13

They feel stressed and drained. They can have anxiety issues and chronic stress.

Question 14

What can we not argue with a paranoid personality ?

Answer 14

Because their thinking is not based on rationality.

Question 15

Paranoid personalities are afraid of what ?

Answer 15

Everything.

Question 16

How long can a paranoid personality can stay at home without seeing anyone ?

Answer 16

Forever.

Question 17

Give some words describing the paranoid personality.

Answer 17

Alarmist, alone, aloof, barricaded, biased, calculating, careful, cautious, control freak, defensive, delusional, disbeliever, distrusful, extremist, hypersensitive, insular, narrow-minded, obdurate, pessimistic, suspicious, unforgiving

Question 18

What can paranoid personalities do to test your loyalty ?

Answer 18

They can scour your calendar, check your emails, go to work unannounced. They need control over everything you do.

Question 19

What does the predator do most of the time ?

Answer 19

They scan people to find opportunies, weaknesses to exploit.

Question 20

What can a predator do to ensnare their victims ?

Answer 20

They use superficial knowledge of many topics to impress the victims.

Question 21

Give some words describing the predator.

Answer 21

Abusive, aimless, amoral, antisocial, beguiling, belligerent, bullshitter, calculating, callous, cold blooded, dangerous, dishonest, disingenuous, empty, guiltless, impulsive, malevolent, sleazy, thrill-seeker,

Question 22

How to find out that a person has the traits of several dangerous personality types ?

Answer 22

By observer and narrowing down the search after getting information.
Do not forget, it takes time. Let the behaviors speak for themselves.

Question 23

When someone has the traits of several dangerous personality types, what can he/she do to hurt even more people ?

Answer 23

They can look for other dangerous personalities to create a group and use them to hurt others without getting caught.

Question 24

Why talking to a dangerous personality about his/her “issues” is not such a good idea ?

Answer 24

Because that person may overreact whatever the personality type, and you might put yourself in danger.
They do not think anything is wrong with them.

Question 25

When you find out that someone has traits of a dangerous personality type, what should you do to protect yourself ?

Answer 25

Distance yourself. Do not try to talk this through.

Question 26

What can you do when you are being rushed by someone (who is potentially dangerous) ?

Answer 26

Take your time to think it through. A person having consideration for you will understand that you need time.

Question 27

What to do when someone threatens to leave you, or commit suicide, or they say they will be devastated if you don’t do this or that ?

Answer 27

You are being manipulated and you have to set boundaries, distance yourself to get control over your life back.

Question 28

How to assess someone over time ?

Answer 28

Assess how much/how often.

Question 29

What should you do to be less “surprised” by someone ?

Answer 29

Check them out, check that what they do and say is coherent. Check a bit about their past without being too personal (school they have been, work, their family, etc…)

Question 30

If you sense something wrong, what should you do ?

Answer 30

Act. Quickly. Don’t wait for too long.

Question 31

How do you prove that you are being mistreated by someone ?

Answer 31

You can write down in a journal about anything that happens (with time and date).

Question 32

What is the first thing to do when encounting a dangerous personality let’s just say for work ?

Answer 32

Set boundaries. Do not allow that person to do things you do not want him/her to do.