Attraction & Relationships Flashcards
For what do we have a strong need?
For affiliation and/ or a sense of belonging.
What is affiliation?
The act of associating or interacting with one or more other person/ people.
What does the feeling of being left out leave us with due to the pain associated with it?
With feelings of being out of control, sadness, and anger.
What has been shown in relation to individuals who claim not to need other people?
That each of these individual’s self-esteem and mood improves after having been accepted by others.
What are we designed to do, as opposed to separate?
Connect
How vital is affiliation for psychological wellbeing?
As vital as nourishment and hydration are for our physical wellbeing.
What does a lack of social and physical contact negatively affect?
The ability of both the brain and hormonal system to cope with stress.
What impact does isolation have on functioning?
It impairs cognitive and social functioning in the long run.
With what do lonely individuals suffer more so than the rest of the population?
Health problems
What are the four factors that influence our likelihood of liking and being attracted to another person?
- Physical attraction
- Exposure and proximity
- Similarity
- Reciprocity
What kind of qualities do people tend to associate with attractive individuals?
Positive qualities
What kind of qualities do people tend to associate with unattractive individuals?
Negative qualities
Which differences have been identified between attractive and unattractive individuals across cultures?
Attractive individuals have been found to have higher statuses and better social skills, as well as be more successful and mentally healthy than unattractive people.
What has been found in relation to physically attractive children?
That they receive preferential treatment over less attractive children.
What are the benefits of being physically attractive?
It may result in reduced social anxiety, increased popularity, and increased sexual experience as opposed to the flip side of the coin.