5 - Calibration Flashcards
What can be calibrated
Anything in set can be calibrated
- value to comfort
- irrogant to humble
Talking to the girl vs her friends
Invisible escalation
You’re moving things forward in a way that cannot be rejected, will never see rejection
It’s a subtle way of indicating a man to women interaction
How to notice the pre-reject of IVE
You might feel a tension and you gonna pull away
What is the outcomes of IVE
- you’re finding out her information of boundaries and how much you could push things
- you’re calibrating in micro-steps
- you’re calibrating before the fact
What to keep in mind through IVE
Thinking ahead
The more you pause in verbal escalation between the verbals the more you could gage her reaction
Whats is flipping the script
You’re gonna not escalate at certain points, that will lead her to escalate on you
You’re no longer the one who’s escalating, you’re creating the opportunity to escalate
You’re escalating her emotins in a physical way to the sense she’s escalating on you
Calibration procedure
Step 1 : look at the girl and try and come up with the best module of who she is.
If it’s hard module her as the general understanding of evolution
If that’s hard module her as you
Step 2 - start escalating:
Invincible escalation
Or reverse escalation based on the best understanding of her module
Step 3 : look for anything that indicates your module is off and readjust your module - reevaluate your module Then when you know her module start escalating based on the new one
Long time learning
Anytime you failed sets look back at what was unusual